Do you want to know what I think?
I think you know more than you think you do.
So, in answer to the question, what do you know?
The truth is you know everything.
I remember being told that a smart person knows what they don’t know.
I agree.
Sometimes, we know too much or we think we do.
There are advantages that you have now which will someday become the past. So please pay attention and be advised that this moment is more important than you think. Be mindful of who and where you are. But more, be careful of who and what you listen to.
Everything about right now is special and pivotal.
Believe it.
I suppose the following pages will be a series of conversations that will remain between us.
And that’s fine. My style is to create a written conversation between us.
My aim is to offer some insight and perhaps a few suggestions; but more, I suppose that my past has allowed me some experiences. So, I am offering this out there.
I know that everyone has an opinion and everyone is quick to give your their version of advice.
Inspiration comes from different directions. And this journal, well, this was inspired by different people who come from different places. This was inspired by my limited experience with people who have shown me little pieces of their life.
And for this, I am grateful . . .
This introduction is being entered today, February 2, 2024, and three days after I read the news.
So, with that being said, I am inspired to write the following:
What do you know?
How many times have you heard this question? Better yet, how many times did someone tell you this when you were a kid?
What do you know? You’re just a kid . . .
How many times have you asked someone this question?
What do you know?
I am sorry. But this needs to be discussed.
But more, this needs to be discussed now and more than we think.
What do you know?
I can say that questions like this cause a great divide between us as people. And yes, I can say this causes a great divide between us as a society.
I called this journal, If That Were True because thoughts are not always true. And neither are assumptions. Fears are not always so and opinions are not always fact. But to us . . .
We are what we think we are.
Right?
If I think that I am terrible, then it must be true.
If I think that I am a waste or a loser or an imposter and that any moment now, the curtain will be pulled and all will be revealed, then at best, I will always be on the look out or be prepared for an expected or an upcoming humiliation.
But what if none of this is true?
What if this is only a thought?
If we notice, everything comes down to us. There really is nothing else, at least not according to us.
There are other people in the world. There are other places too, such as places around the world with other people who speak other languages.
We all know this.
We all know that there is a great big world out there. At the same time, we are only limited to our own view.
We see what we see. We learn what we learn and we interpret information in our own special way.
If the opposite of peace is chaos, then at some point, we have to come to an end. At some point, we can only fall so far until we hit the bottom. And we can’t fall forever.
We can’t live in constant crisis mode. Eventually, something has to give.
If everything washes out in the end or if it is true that pride comes before the fall, then at some point, whether it will be the cancel culture or the gossip mills and rumor factories, or whether our demise is our own doing, eventually, there will be nowhere left to fall.
Continue readingAt what point is it enough? When is it your turn?
These are great questions to ask. In fact, I ask this about us all the time.
When is it our turn?
See, I want to dance. I want to have the times of our life.
I want to be the reason why people look with envy.
Sure, I do.
I was involved with a talk about how we think or why we feel the way I do. And then it came down to the parents.
As if to ask, “where were they” or “why didn’t they talk to me about any of this.” and I have news about this. We all have our own programs running in the background.
No one can see through my eyes and no one can see through yours.
We have all been led by our own perception. We have all been prey to our own misperceptions as well.
Plus, there is a projection, or in the case of our parents who overlooked our life from the beginning and the early ears, perhaps they were lost too or maybe they lost to their own misperceptions as well.
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