What does it mean to recover or to get something back?
Or wait, what did we lose in the first place? Is it time? Is it half of our life?
Or is it more than this and instead of things that we’ve lost, we opened our eyes to realize that so much has happened yet, we sat there like a witness and let everything go by.

What does it mean to reclaim your own life?
What does it mean to take your dreams back? All of them.
One at a time.

Phase Six is all about recovery. To be clear, everyone has something in their life which either hurt them or held them back. Everyone has a past or a previous life which they have tried to forget, shake off or tried to escape from. Also, everyone has a choice they wished they made, long ago,. Had they made this choice or had they showed the bravery and took the chance they needed to take; or had they dared the lines or dared the so-called rules to make this so, their entire lives would have been absolutely different.
Well, perhaps this is subjective and maybe this is subjective to me.
But –

There were times in my life when I used to think about the art of war.
I would think about the moments of heated debates and the hurt feelings or the battles we face. I would think about love or what it was like to be loveless and alone; or worse, to have no one there who truly understood, which is deeper than just a typical connection.
I have talked to you about the secret of endurance. This is crucial.
I have talked to you about how to survive another day, even when survival seems like too much to ask. Whether we thought we could make it or not; we have talked about the values of our uprising accomplishments to which we overcome more than we thought we could.

I was listening to a speaker tell a group of people that no one should ever underestimate the impact that we have upon each other’s lives. No one should ever underestimate their influence nor should they underestimate their presence or their absence. We are all uniquely important to each other. While our levels of intimacy may vary with acquaintances or friends or lovers, the value of certain people are absolutely irreplaceable.
This means we have value; hence, our worth is more important than we think.
(Yours included!)

I can remember a story that someone told me in which he said, “Man cannot serve two masters.”
His point was more than we can’t save our face and our ass at the same time. This was more than understanding where and who we challenge our energy towards. This was more about whether I choose to heal and to overcome or to recover and improve; or if I want to worry or go back and forth and fight and argue; or, if I want to lose myself to anxiety and nurture the problems over the execution of a greater solution; either way is fine. I can go in either direction. I can do whatever I choose. But I can’t go in both directions at the same time.

I remember being told that “Whatever people think of me is none of my business.”
So, whatever people think or whatever their intentions are and no matter if they wish me well or otherwise, none of this is my business.
We talked about the meltdowns and the freak-outs and the reasons behind them. We talked about the different birthplaces that connected us to our irrational assumptions and the bouts we experience with shame. There’s a reason why we look to defend ourselves. Often, these reasons come from an emotional content that stems from within. However, there is a way to improve and there is a way to overcome ourselves.
But first, we have to understand that we do not have to own or claim anything that does not (or should not) belong to us. And more, no matter what, we have to find a way to forgive ourselves – even if we think we are unforgivable; still, we can’t live in the constant stages of guilt.

There is a cycle of life to which, of course, we all know about.
We all go through births and rebirths of different kinds. We experience life in new ways and yes, death is very much a part of life. To be clear, death comes in different ways. This is more than the literal sense and equally figurative, life is segmented into chapters and separated in moments of befores and afters.
We all go through moments of realization and well all know about the before as well as the after. These are the details that make up the chapters of our life.
We lived through the before. But here we are now –
After . . . .

Always look within.
Remember, if we are to find what we need and if we are to define our best possible life, then the answers we need to understand are the answers that come from places like our heart and our soul. Before exploring the external universe, start here first. 
Remember, our life begins with us.
This starts at the first moment of an early morning when we open our eyes and get out of bed. This grows and gains momentum when we see ourselves in the mirror for the very first time and then it ends each day when we face ourselves in the mirror with a constructive conclusion before heading to sleep.

We are social creatures.
This means we gather and we flock. We find ourselves with groups and with people who either inspire or impose.
We encounter people who will lift us up when we are down and, at the same time, there are people who will prefer us this way. So, they might look to keep us there. Down and under foot. There are times when we find ourselves in moments that are about to embrace a new change. We are about to open a new chapter, looking ahead and facing forward.

I will keep this one short to gain a burst of both inspiration and motivation.
I will also keep this impactful. So to maintain this morning’s energy, I will get right to the point.
We need that fire. We need that blast of energy.
But more, we need to be mindful.